Ditch Phones Reconnect The Real Power Of Community
wellness"If all your friends are on social media and they don't live close enough to come help you change your brakes on Saturday, what good is it other than a rah-rah session?" Boone on building local networks — social media is only good for putting out information and encouraging each other. Real strength comes from your local community, the people who can show up physically when it counts.
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You got to be honest with yourself about what you can do.
There's a lot of people go, oh, I can't do that.
They're not being honest with themselves.
They're really saying they don't want to do that
or they're not willing to do that.
So that's where it comes down to.
And I think the thing that brings you beyond that desire
to do it and actually making it happen
is being part of a community that's doing
what you want to do.
So we've got to get back to our local communities
and be part of our communities.
That's where we find our strength.
Social media is great, but I really think
it's only good for a couple things.
And that is one, to put out good information,
and two, to encourage each other.
But if all your friends are on social media
and they don't live close enough to you
to come over and help you change your brakes on Saturday,
what really, what good is it
other than just the rah-rah session?
It's not great.
So we've got to be able to build local networks again,
which means simple, simple things.
I encourage people to do this
when we're talking about community.
In the past, there were such things in the United States.
We used to have block parties.
Everybody in the block, Memorial Day and Fourth of July,
everybody would get together cooking hot dogs.
Kids are playing.
You got the drunk uncle over there being an ass.
That was America, but it was people.
It was a community.
People have given that up.
Also, potlucks.
I have a challenge for everybody out there.
Have a no-phone potluck.
A no-phone potluck.
Invite everybody over.
You bring the cake.
You bring the macaroni and cheese.
You bring the chicken.
You bring the drinks.
You bring the cups.
And everybody leave your phones in the car.
What a great idea.
I love that.
What a great, great idea.
If we did that, Boone,
I would imagine that the first gathering we had
would probably have about three people there.
But we would certainly build it up
once they began to see how much fun we were having.
We've got, and people are wanting it.
Yeah. Yeah.
I think people have been isolated for so long
on these machines.
Having that human connection.
I always say this.
If you can't smell the person you're talking to,
assume you're talking to a bot.
Yeah.
You know, it's interesting, Boone.
My mom used to say, you know,
they're all before she died.
My mom died at 90 a couple of years ago.
And she used to say, you know, I see all these people.
She didn't even have an iPhone.
She still used the phone in the house, you know,
that hangs on the wall.
That was my mom.
So she, and she used to say,
I see all these people staring at their phones.
She'd go eat somewhere in public
and they'd be sitting there staring at their phones
right across from each other.
She said, my mom used to say,
the closest you're ever gonna get to the divine
until we pass is the person
who's sitting right across from you.
That is a divine, that is a reflection of the divine,
that human being sitting right across from you.
What an insult to sit there and be staring at a phone
while you have the opportunity to engage
with someone made in the image and likeness of the divine.
You know, and I'll never forget her saying that.
And so I love your idea
about leaving the phones behind for a few hours.
Yeah, it's a beautiful thing.
And here's the other thing I like to tell people all the time.
Spend two hours a day, just two hours a day,
put your phone in the other room and turn it off.
And if after about 10 minutes,
you start coming up with excuses,
you need to go check your phone.
This sounds a lot like addiction behavior.
Yeah. Great point.
Great point, yeah.
Danielle, is there anything else that you wanted to,
we got about seven minutes left to max out the hour.
I wanna give you a chance.
Anything you wanted to final words for Boone?
Well, I just, I have so many questions.
So we'll just have to have you back on
because the conversation has been so great
and we barely even scratched the surface
of what we had planned to talk about,
which is the mark of a fantastic conversation.
When you throw out the prep and just say,
let's sit down and talk about what's really on your mind.
No, and I appreciate being here.
And I do wanna encourage everybody
to watch General Flynn's movie.
And not on our website, not on Freedom State.
Yeah, I'm sure you guys will provide the link
because General Flynn's movie dispels,
if you want to understand how an influence operation happens
and how they can politically assassinate someone so well,
go watch General Flynn's movie
because it is cookie cutter cutout.
You know, we traveled the country,
we went across the country twice on the movie tour
and every single showing, I would ask people
as the MC for the show, I would ask people,
I said, raise your hand if you were upset
when General Flynn went to jail.
90% of the audience every single time
would raise their hand.
Well, the truth is General Flynn never went to jail.
He was never convicted of anything.
The DOJ dropped the case, but people don't know this.
And they don't know this
because there was a very well-crafted influence operation
that was conducted against him for one single reason.
One, he's the man he is.
And the man he is took a look at these black budget programs
and went, there's a lot of money here.
Can you show me how it's effective?
Let's figure this out.
Just the threat of auditing those programs,
which less than this many people in our country
even know about in depth,
just that threat got him taken.
Wow.
Wow.
It is, so I did not realize
that that was the nucleus of it all.
Yeah, we will.
Watch it.
We will.
Watch it.
Well, thank you again Boone for coming on
and you gotta come down to Louisiana at some point
and come see us.
We'll treat you really, really well.
It would be a privilege to have you down.
It's my honor.
I'd love to do it.
Awesome.
Thanks Boone.
Have a wonderful rest of your day.
God bless you, man.
Thank you guys.
God bless you.
Keep doing what you're doing.
God bless you.
Thank you.
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